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PostSubject: An update for my life happenings.   Sun Oct 04, 2015 6:51 pm

Today at 12:57 My grandfather took one last breath. My grandmother held his hand, and the room waited. Today At 12:57 his heart beat one more time. Today was his birthday, today he turned 88 years old. 83 of those years he had spent with my grandmother in one fashion or another as they first ever met in kindergarten. Today at 12:57 the nurse pulled my father from the room quietly. With a nod and a few quietly spoken words it was confirmed. Today He passed quietly surrounded by love.

Death is not painful for the dead.
Death is only painful for those still living.
Death is not evil, it is not cruel, and it is not wicked.
Death is release.
Death is one last sympathy.
Death is one last moment of kindness.
Death is the loss of pain and the return to the Father and Mother.
Death is the frailty of mind and body removed from those suffering.

I am alright, I am truly, but that does not mean I do not grieve.

But I do not grieve for my grandfather. He is released and free. He is no longer plagued by a failing body, He is no longer burdened with a faltering mind. He is returned to the Mother and Father. He is returned to see his daughter, his brothers, his father, and his mother. He would not wish me pain, he would not wish anyone to suffer.

I grieve for my father, He lost the man that taught him how to be. I grieve for my grandmother, She lost the man that was part of her soul her entire life. I grieve for my sisters, my niece, my step mother, and my family. But I do not grieve for my grandfather.

"For Life was so in love with Death she would spend eternity creating gifts for him. For Death was so in love with Life He would take every gift she made him and cherish and keep it safe for all time."

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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Mon Oct 05, 2015 8:02 am

First time in a long time that someone has me not knowing what to say.. I offer my condolences to you and your family.
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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Mon Oct 05, 2015 12:29 pm

Don't worry for me to badly Erin, i'm alright.

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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:55 am

Todays Kasha Update: Surgery for the lens/cataract is scheduled for Friday at noon. We report to St. Lukes in Denver at 10:30 AM and she should be done with surgery by 1 PM. I hope to send out an update by 2 PM. They plan to remove the cataract and if the lens is too damaged they will remove it - she will use a hard contact as a replacement if they remove the lens (until they replace it after she turns 15). This will have a 6 week heal time and then we will be waiting for the cornea transplant to repair her vision. Not sure what that timeline looks like.

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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Sun Oct 11, 2015 10:45 am

Surgery went great, they removed the cataract, but also the lens capsule, so she is blinder, but they are pretty sure its easier to fix it all this way.

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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Mon Oct 12, 2015 1:22 pm

You have my condolences, Lyo. It's not easy to lose someone. May Odin and Freya give him the party of eternity.
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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Tue Oct 13, 2015 7:14 pm

I'm glad to hear that everything is going well for your daughter. As for your recent loss, I am sorry and I sent my condolences. (I think I spelt that wrong.)
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PostSubject: Re: An update for my life happenings.   Tue Dec 22, 2015 3:06 pm

The next surgery is set up for the 31, if all goes well we could be able to put this all totally behind us! ( save her need now for a contact. but still))

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